This too will pass

I really don’t know how and from where to start. After a long time I am going to pen something, we all are aware about what is happening around the world. Everyone is suffering; everyone is lock inside home because it is necessary to save lives of us and our dear ones. No doubt time is very hard; people have no other way to face this crisis. This pandemic has already snatched so many lives; some of them are of our loved ones. Around 213 countries are affected by COVID 19.

We all are watching news channels, we all know how many people are affected, so I will not discuss more about this in figures. I don’t want to spread negativity, let’s discuss some thing that gives us new hope and positivity in this time.

If you are feeling sad, depressed and alone than you should definitely follow my advice –

Guys, life is the biggest gift of God. If we are still alive and healthy, thanks to God for every thing. Thank him for keep us safe from this deadly virus and remember that he is with us at every moment and watching our every step. Nothing in this world is bigger than God. Keep your faith in God. Some where earth is balancing and healing itself. We human always harm our mother earth. We cut the trees for new constructions, papers, ate and killed other animals who also have the right to live on this planet. We humans destroyed our mother earth for excavation of different metals, petroleum and other things. I myself believe that it is all happening just because we harmed and tampered the nature, now it’s healing itself.

Anyway, I am again going off topic, let’s come to the point, I already said that nothing is permanent in this world, not even time. It will definitely change and never be the same. This tough time will too pass after teaching us some good lessons for life. Days will never be like today, things will change and our life style too. We will laugh together once again, we will be able to meet our friends and re-join the old buddies. There is always a hope for good.

If you are getting bored at home than let’s start to work on things that you liked the most but didn’t continue due to your work load and busy schedules like gardening, sketching, reading, cooking, playing your favourite instrument in your balcony or singing and dancing if you love this. You can do meditation, yoga and exercises at home as we know gyms are still close.

Let’s spend some quality time to our family, partner. What happened if cannot go our relative’s home or they cannot come to our place, we have social media, mobiles and video calls facilities, physically we are apart but emotionally we are attached and can connect anytime with our loved ones. Distance doesn’t make a difference in today’s digital world. We are just one click away from our friends and can share our thoughts at anytime. What we have to do? Just stay indoors and take a step towards happiness. Now you think how to find happiness? It is inside us, I will discuss it in my next blog. One more thing, we you see any person in need around you please help them as you can. This time is hard for everyone. People are struggling for their daily needs, if you are capable to do something you should go for this. Like if you have old neighbours, you can ask them for their grocery shopping or medicines. If you see a bagger, you can provide food to them but never forget the safety guidelines. If you see someone is feeling down or depressed tell them that this time will too pass. Every day gives us new ray of hope. And the day will come when everything will normal just like before. Look at them and just spread a smile with positivity.

If you feel to share something with me, just leave a comment with your name, I will definitely reply on the genuine comments (no promotional comments please). Few of my readers are facing some issues related to notifications by mail. I will try to sort it out as early as possible. Stay safe at indoors. Keep maintaining social distance. Remember hand wash and other hygienes are mandatory to follow. Be healthy.

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